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There’s no mistaking when you’re on the receiving end of a good f-ing. It can hit you like a hot hammer between the eyes taking you completely unawares, tingling your extremities, leaving you breathless and wondering what you did to deserve such good loving. It can also unfold like a lotus in the spirit—cracking your heart open and connecting you to something far deeper, warmer and more expansive than you’d ever imagined. In another sense, a good f-ing is a lot like crossing against the light at rush hour only to find your pants are falling down once you’ve stepped into the road. It’s all you can do to make it to the other side without exposing your nakedness when you never intended to. Face it, when the F word comes for you, you’re rendered vulnerable like you wouldn’t believe. Because getting f’ed carries with it the subtlety of a sucker punch. It empties you out, it fills you up, and most definitely rocks your world. And there’s nothing like it when you get it good.